Be in your Body in order to be Successful with Girls
If you're thinking a lot about how to talk to, communicate, connect and escalate with girls - then you're in likelihood moving in the wrong direction.
They key is go through trial and error (take action), and cultivate habits that put you in your body (take action).
Neither of these require or spur philosophical contemplation - rather they encourage physical movement and exertion, which put you into a mode of feeling, of instinct, and intutive learning.
Taking action like this will allow you to understand, on a visceral level, how to talk to, connect and escalate with women.
I am providing you concepts here - not so you can think about it more - but as a conceptual guide you can internalize as you move more into your body, which is the direction you want to move in order more deeply connect with girls.