Pushing through the Ups and Downs
When you're trying to get better with girls, a key thing to realize is that there are inevitable ups and downs - just like anything in life.
The key is to be mindful of this, and stay on yourself to keep going.
Progress and excellence in any skill requires persistence - and getting better with girls is no different.
There will be inevitable letdowns, droughts, discouragement and doubts - but if you keep going, if you push through it, if you get back on the horse and keep getting out there - there will also inevitably be great reward - connection, sex, girlfriends, threesomes, etc.
You have to keep going though.