Texting - Starting Out
If you're someone who doesn't date a lot, but is getting into it - if you're just a beginner, and just starting out - a good quick tip is:
Don't reach - Stay grounded.
Don't say more than you need to say.
When you get better, you can be more "rich" or creative conversationally (if you want).
It's like if you're cooking something for someone and you're not a great cook - just work within yourself and make, say, rice and beans - don't try to cook a fillet.
Type what feels solid within yourself (while still pushing a little to lead and express intent).
She will feel if you're reaching.