Let them get to know you

If you want to get to know others, you have to let them get to know you.

It doesn’t matter who you are or where you live — New York City, Philadelphia, Washington D.C., Los Angeles, Chicago, Tokyo, Tel Aviv, Paris, Berlin, Sydney, Buenos Aires, Mexico City, etc — you have to open up.

Some people need a coach for this, others can do it on their own.

To open up, you have to work on your habits.

Dating habits, health habits like exercise and diet, organizational habits — they all let you open up the more refined they are.

This is because they make you healthier emotionally, physically, mentally, spiritually.

The healthier you are, the more you want to open up because you are more comfortable in your skin and more confident in what you do.